What’s at Stake

Your family legacy is the ultimate expression of your relationship’s value. Yet the unique pressures from growing and preserving your legacy threaten your relationship. When your core relationship is compromised, your family legacy is at risk.

Unmitigated Costs & Risks

Continued or protracted power struggles that degrade trust and respect
Critical misalignments on decisions about parenting, finances, and family legacy
Chronic imbalances in time, energy, and resource allocations
Most wealthy families lose their assets by the third generation — and in 60% of these cases, the root cause is a breakdown in family communication and trust.
The #1 cause of divorce is arguments around money, and 40% of marriages end in divorce, with 50–77% loss of net worth for each partner

Benefits of Couples Retreats

Greater personal integrity and dignity
Demonstrable skills and behaviors of relational intimacy and emotional maturity
Stronger communication and deeper intimacies even when navigating conflict
Greater coherence around shared vision and legacy
Deeper joy in partnership, family, and life

The Unique Value

Couples will learn more in these few days than in years of therapy. Couples therapy focuses on processing past conflicts and wounds. The Couples Retreat trains you in the embodied relational skills that you actually want, opening up more possibilities. The effectiveness of therapy depends on the critically limited knowledge and skills of the therapist. The Couples Retreat is a structured program using first principles and best practices drawn from an exhaustive meta-analysis of the entire body of relational research that exists in the library of congress.

Advisors in high-net-worth ecosystems are often well resourced in tax and estate advice, family governance tools, succession planning, and philanthropic giving. These available services are not sufficient for developing the advanced relational skills required to more effectively preserve and potentiate family legacies.

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